Things You’ll Wish You Did At Home Before Baby Came
That flutter of excitement mixed with a healthy dose of “Oh my goodness,this is really happening!” That’s what I remember most about those last few weeks before my little one arrived. It’s such a special time, but it’s also a time where nesting instincts kick in HARD, and you might find yourself staring at piles of laundry wondering where on earth to evenbeginpreparing your home. Trust me, I get it!
Preparing your home before your baby arrives isn't just about aesthetics or Instagram-worthy nurseries (though those are fun too!). It’s about creating a safe, comfortable, and functional space where you can recover, bond with your newborn, and navigate those first few overwhelming weeks with a little more ease. A well-prepared home contributes to your peace of mind, allowing you to focus on what truly matters: caring for your sweet baby and yourself.
Let's start with something simple but incredibly impactful: decluttering. I know, I know – it sounds basic. But clearing out unnecessary clutter before the baby arrives is like giving yourself a gift of mental space. Think about it: less stuff means less to clean, less to trip over in the middle of the night during those frequent feedings, and less visual chaos to add to your already sleep-deprived brain. Focus on high-traffic areas like your bedroom, living room, and especially the path to the nursery. Even dedicating just 15 minutes a day to decluttering one small area can make a huge difference!
Setting Up Your Sleep Sanctuary
Your bedroom is about to become even more central to your life than it already is. Those first few weeks (and months!) are a blur of nighttime feedings, diaper changes, and trying to steal a few precious moments of sleep whenever you can. Making your bedroom as comfortable and functional as possible is crucial.
I remember clearing out space for the bassinet right next to our bed. I wanted my baby close by, especially during those initial nights. Having a safe sleep space within arm's reach made me feel so much more secure. I also highly recommend investing in blackout curtains. Trust me, those early morning sunrises will feel a lot less charming when you've been up all night!
Think about where you'll be feeding the baby. If you plan on breastfeeding or bottle-feeding in bed, having a comfortable nursing pillow, a water bottle, and a small snack basket nearby can be a lifesaver. A dimmable bedside lamp will also be your best friend during those nighttime sessions. You don't want to flood the room with bright light, but you'll need enough to see what you're doing.
Creating Efficient Diaper Changing Stations
One thing you’ll definitely be doing a LOT of is changing diapers! Setting up multiple diaper changing stations around the house will save you so much time and energy.
I had one in the nursery, of course, but I also set up a smaller station in our living room and another in our bedroom. This meant I didn't have to trek all the way to the nursery every time my little one needed a change. Each station included diapers, wipes, diaper rash cream, changing pad, and a small bin for dirty diapers. I also kept a few extra onesies on hand for those inevitable blowouts!
Having a portable changing pad is also a great idea for those times when you're out and about. It provides a clean and safe surface for changing your baby anywhere. And don’t forget to stock up on diaper pail refills! You'll be surprised how quickly those things run out.
What should I include in a diaper changing station?
A well-stocked diaper changing station is a lifesaver! Here’s a list of essentials:
Diapers (newborn size, and a size up just in case!)
Wipes (unscented are often best for sensitive newborn skin)
Diaper rash cream
Changing pad (waterproof and easy to clean)
Diaper pail or trash can with a lid
Hand sanitizer
Extra onesies and washcloths
Distractions (small toys or books to keep baby entertained)
Baby Proofing Basics (Even Before They Crawl!)
While your newborn won’t be crawling around anytime soon, it's a good idea to start thinking about baby proofing now. You’ll be surprised how quickly they start exploring! Plus, baby proofing before the baby comes means one less thing to worry about when you're already sleep-deprived and overwhelmed.
Start with the basics: securing any loose cords, covering electrical outlets, and removing any small objects that could be a choking hazard. Pay attention to sharp corners on furniture and consider adding corner protectors. Also, be sure to anchor any heavy furniture to the walls to prevent it from tipping over.
Even though your baby won't be mobile for a few months, it's also a good idea to think about potential hazards like stairs, fireplaces, and cleaning supplies. Install baby gates at the top and bottom of stairs and keep all cleaning products locked away out of reach. It’s better to be proactive than reactive when it comes to baby proofing!
Do I need to baby proof before my baby is born?
Yes, it's a good idea to start baby proofing your home before your baby arrives. While your newborn won't be crawling around right away, it's better to be prepared. It's one less thing to worry about when you're already adjusting to life with a newborn, and it gives you peace of mind knowing that your home is safe for your little one.
Conquering the Mountain of Laundry (and Beyond!)
Let’s talk about the never-ending task of laundry. Newborns go through a LOT of clothes! From spit-up to diaper explosions, it feels like you're constantly washing something. Setting up a system for dealing with laundry before the baby arrives will save you a lot of time and stress.
I designated a specific laundry basket just for baby clothes. I also started doing a load of laundry every day or every other day to prevent it from piling up. Invest in a good stain remover specifically designed for baby clothes – trust me, you'll need it! And don't forget to wash all of your baby's new clothes before they wear them.
Beyond laundry, think about other household chores. Consider hiring a cleaning service, even if it's just for the first few weeks after the baby arrives. Or, if that's not in your budget, ask friends or family for help with tasks like cleaning, cooking, or running errands. Every little bit helps!
How can I simplify laundry with a newborn?
Designate a specific laundry basket for baby clothes: This helps keep baby clothes separate and prevents them from getting mixed in with your other laundry. Do laundry frequently: Aim to do a load every day or every other day to prevent it from piling up. Invest in a good stain remover: Newborns are messy! A good stain remover will be your best friend. Wash all new clothes before baby wears them: This helps remove any potential irritants or chemicals. Ask for help:Don't be afraid to ask friends or family for help with laundry or other household chores.
Stocking Up on Newborn Essentials (and Mama Must-Haves!)
Of course, you'll need to stock up on all the newborn essentials before your baby arrives. But don't go overboard! It's easy to get caught up in the excitement and buy everything you see, but you'll likely end up with a lot of things you don't need.
Focus on the basics: diapers, wipes, onesies, swaddles, a safe sleep space, and a car seat. You can always buy more later if you need it. Don't forget to stock up on postpartum essentials for yourself too! Think comfortable clothes, nursing bras, pads, pain relief medication, and snacks.
Preparing a postpartum care kit will make those first few days at home so much easier. Include things like witch hazel pads, perineal spray, and nipple cream. And don't forget to prioritize self-care! Even if it's just taking a few minutes to shower or read a book, it's important to take care of yourself during this time.
What are the absolute newborn essentials I need at home?
Diapers and wipes: Stock up on newborn-size diapers and unscented wipes. Onesies and swaddles: These are the basics for keeping your baby comfortable. A safe sleep space: A bassinet, crib, or co-sleeper that meets safety standards. A car seat: Essential for bringing your baby home from the hospital. Burp cloths: You'll need plenty of these to clean up spit-up. Thermometer: To monitor your baby's temperature. Nasal aspirator:To clear your baby's nasal passages.
Don’t Forget About YOU: Postpartum Prep
While preparing for the baby is essential, remember to prepare for your own postpartum recovery as well! This is often overlooked, but it's just as important. Your body will have gone through a lot during pregnancy and childbirth, so it's crucial to give yourself the time and space to heal.
Prepare a comfortable and relaxing space for yourself. This could be a cozy corner in your bedroom or a comfortable chair in the living room. Stock it with things that make you feel good, like books, magazines, snacks, and a water bottle.
Think about meals too. Consider meal prepping before the baby arrives or signing up for a meal delivery service. Or, ask friends or family to bring meals over during those first few weeks. Having healthy and convenient meals readily available will make your life so much easier.
It’s also a great idea to line up some support. If you’re planning on having family visit, be sure to talk to them about expectations ahead of time. Make sure they understand that you’ll need help, and not just more visitors to entertain! Postpartum doulas can also be an incredible resource.
Remember, preparing your home for your baby is a journey, not a destination. It's about creating a space where you and your little one can thrive. And remember, it doesn’t have to be perfect! Focus on creating a safe, comfortable, and functional environment, and don't be afraid to ask for help along the way. You've got this, mama! Your home will be filled with love, and that's the most important preparation of all.